Sunday, May 10, 2026

Notice

Notice


it is of course

well known

how men

steal

women’s labor

their cooking

their cleaning

their remembering

every appointment

and calling it all

love

and family


but lately

i have also been noticing

how they also steal

the woman’s

joy

like

all her joy


how the men who have wives

are

as they say in nepali

rato-piro

glowing

joyous

their cheeks rosy

their eyes twinkling

a smile always ready

a laugh always booming

and the woman next to them

is always

gloomy

drooping

tired

exhausted

sighing


once you see it

you cannot unsee it



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Friday, March 13, 2026

hierarchy of affection

 She greets everyone differently

And it is up to us to figure out
And squabble over
The hierarchy
Of her affections
Depicted by it

Some, she greets with a smile
And a ready yelp
With which she jumps
In their direction
One could say
This is the height of
Her attachment

Others,
She greets with a shy,
Hesitant smile
And will go to them
In a few minutes
One could say this is
Coyly affectionate

Still other,
she greets by showing them
Something
She is preoccupied with
Something like a book
Or a picture, or a toy
Just a deflection
Or projection
Of affection
A seeking, of attention
One could say

And then there is someone
Or maybe just one
Who she might greet
Not necessarily with a smile
Whom she blithely ignores often
To explore new realms
Or to delight
In play, in society
Or a laugh or a yelp
But looks at
With a desperate yearning
In times of distress

I would like to believe
The hierarchy
Is not settled
By smiles

But that would just be
wishful thinking

युद्धको विभत्सता

हिजो युद्ध विभत्स थियो
एक अर्काको ज्यान लिन उद्दत
पुरुषहरु
रणभूमीमा उत्रिन्थे

आज समय यति विभत्स छ कि
हिजोको युद्ध
आदर्श जस्तो देखिन्छ

आज 'पुरुष' भनाउँदो
हजार पत्रे किल्लाभित्र बसेर
मात्र बोलीको भरमा
ताकीताकी
बच्चाहरुको ज्यान लिन्छ