wish it was so easy

in movies,
when you are in confusion
a rakish guy says something
you disagree
but you think about it
and decide he is right
you take unprecedented decisions, 
turn your life around,
and fall in love to boot

in real life,
you think about what he says
decide he is wrong
and let it rankle forever
(plus the rake is an obnoxious prig
you will never even like)